by winston » Tue Jan 11, 2022 10:20 am
What is an effective strategy to live in peace with oneself and with everyone around?
The tongue is the armour of the heart; it guards one's life.
Loud talk, long talk, wild talk, talk full of anger and hate - all these affect the health of man.
They breed anger and hate in others; they wound, they excite, they enrage, and they estrange.
Why is silence said to be golden? The silent man has no enemies, though he may not have friends.
He has the leisure and the chance to dive within himself and examine his own faults and failings. He has no more inclination to seek them in others.
If your foot slips, you earn a fracture; if your tongue slips, you fracture someone’s faith or joy. That fracture can never be set right; that wound will fester forever.
Therefore, use the tongue with great care. The softer you talk, the less you talk, and the sweeter you talk - the better for you and the world.
- Divine Discourse, Mar 29, 1965.
Be silent yourself, that will induce silence in others.
Source: radiosai.org
It's all about "how much you made when you were right" & "how little you lost when you were wrong"