Powerful Lessons in Personal Change
by Stephen R. Covey
Key Message
• Focus on developing character, not personality.
• You are what you habitually do, so adopt productive habits.
• Excellence is a habit, not an aptitude.
• You are free because you can determine how you respond to circumstances.
• Choose sound principles and live by them: integrity, dignity, quality, service, patience, perseverance, caring, courage.
• Write a personal mission statement to clarify your principles and set your goals.
• Think of what you want people to say about you at your funeral and try to deserve it.
• Build trust in your relationships.
• Balance the attention you give to each of your roles. Allot time to each of your responsibilities and relationships.
• Understand that you have the ability to improve your habits and your life.
• Habit 1. They take initiative. (“Be Proactiveâ€)
• Habit 2. They focus on goals. (“Begin with the End in Mindâ€)
• Habit 3. They set priorities. (“Put First Things Firstâ€)
• Habit 4. They only win when others win. (“Think Win/Winâ€)
• Habit 5. They communicate. (“Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understoodâ€)
• Habit 6. They cooperate. (“Synergizeâ€)
• Habit 7. They reflect on and repair their deficiencies. (“Sharpen the Sawâ€)
One of my favourites, highly recommended to read as the 7 habits are deeper than they sound.