Sex 02 (Jul 15 - Mar 19)

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【淫僧釋學誠】性侵尼姑丟方丈袈裟 《蘋果》福建直擊成魔路(三之一)
https://hk.news.appledaily.com/china/re ... 5/58830747

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自三歲已想變性 跨性別女踩上大銀幕誓做自己
https://hk.news.appledaily.com/local/re ... 0/58850168

[winston]

We have made sex a problem

Why is it that whatever we touch we turn into a problem?... Why has sex become a problem?

Why do we submit to living with problems; why do we not put an end to them? Why do we not die to our problems instead of carrying them day after day, year after year?

Surely, sex is a relevant question, which I shall answer presently, but there is the primary question: why do we make life into a problem? Working, sex, earning money, thinking, feeling, experiencing, you know, the whole business of living—why is it a problem?

Is it not essentially because we always think from a particular point of view, from a fixed point of view?

We are always thinking from a center towards the periphery, but the periphery is the center for most of us, and so anything we touch is superficial. But life is not superficial; it demands living completely, and because we are living only superficially, we know only superficial reaction.

Whatever we do on the periphery must inevitably create a problem, and that is our life—we live in the superficial and we are content to live there with all the problems of the superficial.

So, problems exist as long as we live in the superficial, on the periphery—the periphery being the “me” and its sensations, which can be externalized or made subjective, which can be identified with the universe, with the country, or with some other thing made up by the mind.

So, as long as we live within the field of the mind there must be complications, there must be problems; and that is all we know.

The Book of Life, April 10, Harper San Francisco, 1995

Source: jkrishnamurthi.com

[winston]

Sex

Sex is a problem because it would seem that in that act, there is complete absence of the self.

In that moment you are happy, because there is the cessation of self-consciousness, of the “me”; and desiring more of it—more of the abnegation of the self in which there is complete happiness, without the past or the future demanding that complete happiness through full fusion, integration—naturally it becomes all-important.

Isn’t that so? Because it is something that gives me unadulterated joy, complete self forgetfulness, I want more and more of it.

Now, why do I want more of it? Because, everywhere else I am in conflict, everywhere else, at all the different levels of existence, there is the strengthening of the self.

Economically, socially, religiously, there is the constant thickening of self-consciousness, which is conflict. After all, you are self-conscious only when there is conflict. Self-consciousness is in its very nature the result of conflict...

So, the problem is not sex, surely, but how to be free from the self. You have tasted that state of being in which the self is not, if only for a few seconds, if only for a day, or what you will; and where the self is, there is conflict, there is misery, there is strife. So, there is the constant longing for more of that self-free state.

The Book of Life, April 8, Harper San Francisco, 1995

Source: jkrishnamurthi.com

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爆相爆片：港鐵癡漢被擒　求「畀次機會」
https://hk.news.appledaily.com/local/da ... 3/20567646

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Taiwan TV news report gives glimpse into “fish tank” brothels and other “sights” of Geylang
https://mothership.sg/2018/12/inside-ge ... singapore/

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The seedier secrets of 1950s cabaret girls in S’pore: Prostitution, dangerous abortions & gangs
https://mothership.sg/2018/12/cabaret-g ... s-lancing/

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Man caught filming ladies in Tampines toilet wishes victims “Merry Christmas” & pleads to be let go
https://mothership.sg/2018/12/record-gi ... s-pervert/

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【鏗鏘透視檔案】戒丁幾耐先健康 原來唐代醫師已經有講？
https://hk.lifestyle.appledaily.com/lif ... 7/59105280

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【AI人造女神】慰藉宅男闖情感禁區！ 廣東直擊誕生過程
https://hk.news.appledaily.com/china/re ... 6/59145543